What You Can Do - If You Decide to Leave

Leaving an abusive relationship, even for a short time, can be difficult and dangerous. Leaving can be made easier and safer when you involve police and victim advocates and remember to bring along the following items:

  • Money, your checkbook, credit cards, ATM cards
  • Identification (for self and the children): birth certificates, social security cards, welfare I.D., school and work I.D., green cards, work permits, etc.
  • Important papers such as your divorce papers; school records; lease, rental agreement or house deed; and insurance papers
  • Order of Protection–if you have one, keep it with you at all times.
  • Medical records
  • Medications (prescription and over-the-counter)
  • Keys for car, house and work
  • Change of clothing
  • Address book
  • Mortgage/rent payment book
  • Current unpaid bills
  • Pictures or other items of sentimental value
  • Children’s favorite toys, blankets or other items